VANILLA ATTIRE: When "vanilla attire" is requested you should dress in a manner that would be publicly acceptable. Dress as if you were a "vanilla" person for the day (this does not pertain to wearing diapers under your clothing, which is always allowed). Generally, events that are given this designation are popular with newcomers to the community, helping them feel safe and welcomed by dressing appropriately so as to not draw attention.
MODEST ATTIRE: When modest attire is requested we expect that you dress in a manner that would be considered "low-key" kinky (Ex. small amounts of peekage, shortalls, onesies with pants/shorts/skirts/dresses, tails, harnesses, collars). If you are questioning whether or not you should wear something, play it safe and don't wear it. You can always ask a member of our leadership team for guidance.
AS YOU PLEASE: When the attire for an event is listed as you please, you may simply come as you please. We do advise you to ensure that your travel to and from the event is safe and legal. Always bring a change of "vanilla acceptable" clothing just in case. If you have any questions about this attire you can always ask a member of our leadership team for guidance.